Should I Stay OR Should I Go?

Dr Ramani does what most mental health care professionals aren't doing right now: having a real discussion about the narcissism epidemic and its consequences on society and everyday personal relationships.
This book throws some serious wake up calls on the societal plague we are currently facing(apart from covid19). It also functions as a guideline on how to deal with narcissistic people.

I follow Dr Ramani's YouTube and podcast and wanted to know more about the subject and after reading this book, I could spot some people who may fall into this category. Leaving this post for anyone who might need help/info.

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